The Ulitmate

So, I have recently made an observation, that I would like opinions on:

I hear people say "they got married... and then lived happily every after."

Is marriage what we are suppose to be waiting for? (this is really a rhetorical question)

Does life and happiness start with being married?

I am just finding it hard to believe, that God would put that kind of limitation on a life. 

Just my opinion. Let me know what you think.

Beaten, Bruised and Finding God in it All.

I am so tired... I feel pretty beaten up, I mean can't you tell I am writing this at 3:45 in the morning. I am trying to find what it means to allow the Lord to "carry you" and to for Him to take over your life. I guess I am struggling with all the of "Christian lingo," what do these words mean? What does it look like to be "consumed" and how does that happen? I may just be writing this out of frustration and exhaustion, but geee whiz... I am wrestling. 

Jacob wrestled with God, and God did 2 things:

a. put him in his place

b. blessed him and allowed him more opportunities to glorify our Lord and Savior

So, put me in the ring... It's time to wrestle.